MOMMY-WOOD: Kids & Labeling

Photo is not mine. Credit is given to the owner.

Kids...Kids...Kids... You both love them and hate them. They can be both an angel and a devil... An angel when they are sleeping soundly. A devil when they go berserk and throw tantrums. But, no matter how your kids look or behave, there is this one thing that every parent should avoid. BAD LABELING. 

Bad boy! Fat-so! Spoiled brat! Those are just examples of bad labeling. When a child misbehaves, a parent scolds the child and tells them what a bad child they have been. When a child asks for something that the parent doesn't want to give then throws tantrums, the parent would sometimes tell them they are such a spoiled brat. I am guilty of this and I know I am not alone. 

According to an article in a previous issue of Smart Parenting, the parents are doing this to make their child guilty of their behavior in the hopes that they will try to be better. However, this is not an effective way to address the issue since we are highlighting the negative behavior. The tends to focus on this behavior and the situation may become worse.

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I remember telling my two-year old son that he was a bad boy and slap his hand lightly whenever he would do something wrong. However, as time goes by, he would just ignore me whenever I scold him. He no longer cries whenever I slap his hand. Arggghhh! Parenting can be so confusing! 

The article also stated that "things repeatedly said to a child are absorbed automatically". Best thing that a parent can do is use positive/good labeling to encourage your child to behave well. 

When a friend asks you if your child is spoiled, don't let them hear you talk negative about them. Instead, say something positive. Tell your friend that you have a good kid and that you don't have any problem with his/her attitude. And, make sure that your kid hears this! It will boost their confidence and will encourage them to continue their positive behavior.

I'm actually trying out this technique for a couple of weeks now and so far, I think I'm seeing some results on my hyperactive kid. He listens now to what I am saying and wants to prove to me that he is a good boy. I'll give you an update after a month or so.

Photo is not mine. Credit is given to the owner.

At the end of the day, you just really have to be more patient with your toddlers/kids.  If you are not going to love them just the way they are, who else will? 

How about you? Do you have any parenting woes? Come on and share with us! 

FOOD: Beestop's Beest Tasting Garlic Fried Chicken

I've always been a HUGE FAN of Garlic Fried Chicken. I'm actually a huge fan of anything with garlic. Period. ^_^ So, I've started my quest to search for the best tasting garlic chicken in town. And I've finally found it... at Beestop!

With it's delicious and garlicky sauce, you will surely be satisfied with their Single Combo Meal for only Php59.00 with FREE Iced Tea. However, if you are a HEAVY rice eater and prefers a BIGGER chicken, you can always opt to order their Rice Unlimited Combo Meal for only Php89.00 with FREE Iced Tea. Now, isn't this something worth trying?

What I've really like about Beestop's Garlic Fried Chicken is that the flavoring/marinade reached the bones. Unlike other Garlic Chickens that I've tried, once you have eaten the skin and the top coating, the meat of the chicken tastes bland. As in, nothing! As in, you have to ask for soy sauce and vinegar to create your own chicken dip. At Beestop, the flavor doesn't just stops at the chicken skin. It goes all the way to the BONES! Yummy!

You might have also noticed that it is GARLIC FRIED CHICKEN and not just your ordinary Garlic Chicken. This is what set Beestop's product from other restos. The chicken is fried first then the cook does his/her magic. Perfection!

Beestop Dancers during the Beestop Laurel Gensan Grand Opening last May 14, 2013

Diners who availed the Buy 1 Take 1 Promo during the Beestop Laurel's Grand Opening last May 14, 2013

The Facade of Beestop Laurel. Beestop's Main Branch.

Beestop does not only serve best tasting chicken meals but also have other menu to offer the public. They serve Pinoy Meals such as Adobong Kangkong (another fave of mine), Kinilaw (Raw Tuna), and Tuna Belly Meals. They also have a Pancit Piyesta line which offers Pancit Canton, Sotanghon and a Pinoy's favorite, Bihon Guisado. They also have Burgers and Spaghetti for kids and kids at heart.

Beestop has currently four branches all over the Philippines: two in General Santos City, one in Davao City, and one in Bauan, Batangas. A new Beestop branch will be opening soon in Baguio City. 

Beestop is a local food chain that originated in General Santos City and was established in 2007. It is owned and operated by a practicing culinarian from the Gerardo's Culinary School in Gensan.

And guess what, they are open for franchising! For franchising inquiries, you can check out their website at www.beestop.net or contact 09053422156. 

SunCity Suites 4th Night Run: Let's Bring the Fun in Run!

For the past four years, fun runs have become a huge trend here in General Santos City.

However, there is this one, big and blast-ful (it always ends up with a firework display) NightRun that is always above all the rest. Yes, it is the SunCity Suites NightRun Series.

Since 2011, SunCity Suites, one of the leading hotels in General Santos City, hosts the SunCity Suites NightRun, the only successful nightrun in town.

As part of their Corporate Social Responsibility, 10% of their profit will go to a chosen foundation. This year, they have chosen the GSC Tuna Capital to be their beneficiary.

The NightRun will be on July 19, 2014 with its starting line at Veranza Mall and finish line at SunCity Suites. Assembly time will be at 5 PM and gunstart will be at 7PM. 

Here are some of the details of the NightRun.

Proud Sponsors of this event are the following:

* Phoenix Petroleum

* KCC Mall of Gensan & Veranza Mall

* Mitchy's Car & Accessories

* Cebu Pacific

* Dole Philippines 

* Bench Robinsons Place Gensa

* H20 Distilled Water

* Seda Hotel

* Sarangani Highlands

* Waterfron Insular Hotel Davao

* QuikSilver

* Safi Meat Shop

* 4A AgroScience Corp.

* DC

* TORQUE General Santos City Chapter

Registration Centers are at the SunCity Suites Front Desk, Bench Robinsons Place Gensan, Mitchy's Car & Accessories, and KCC Mall of Gensan.

Deadline of registration will be on July 15, 2014 but this is usually extended (as per my experience).

I'm glad to say that after 4 years, I am finally joining the NightRun and not just be behind the scenes. 

Here are some photos of the previous NightRuns: 

All photos are from SunCity Suites NightRun Series FB Page

So what are you waiting for? Register now! 

BEAUTY: Colour Collection Ultimate Wear Lipstick (Headturner)

Last April, my sister got an up-and-coming lipstick sample from SampleRoom. 

Just to give you a backgrounder, SampleRoom is a beauty and lifestyle website that gives out sample of newly launched or soon to be launched products in exchange of reviews. The site operates on a point system where in each product is valued with certain points. Each member is given 100 points upon registering and will be used to "purchase" the products. The products are free but you have to shoulder the shipping fee. Once you've tried out your free sample, you need to leave a review for you to gain more points. Cool, huh? 

Back to my sample! My sister ordered the Colour Collection Ultimate Wear Lipstick by Tupperware. At first, I wasn't really keen on the idea since, Hello, Tupperware! I'm not always open to trying out new make-up brands, especially when it comes to lipsticks. I've always been a Revlon, Maybelline, and Rimmel kind of girl. 

Screenshot from SampleRoom.Ph

However, I was blown-away when I tried the sample. I LOVE IT!

Color

The color was perfect for my skin color. I have always searched for this color. Again, it's perfect and the hue that I have always wanted on my lips. 

Lasting Power

I'll give this lipstick 5 Stars as this surely lasts really, really long. I barely need to re-touch whenever I go out or eat out. The stain is still on my lips even after eating and drinking all night long. Sometimes, when I did re-applied it during the day, the stain will last after I've brushed my teeth or rubbed my lips. Sometimes, the stain is even still there when I wake up in the morning. It's that amazing! Finally, I've found the long lasting lipstick that's right for me.

Moisturizing Effect

My lips easily chapped and get dry. That's why I have to apply lip balm every once in a while. However, I didn't experience any dryness or chapping with this lipstick. It keeps my lips moisturized well. 

Overall Experience 

I've enjoyed using this lipstick and I will surely buy it. Wearing this lipstick gives me the confidence boost and let's me avoid the hassle of checking myself in the mirror every now and then just to see if I look pale.  It is also cost-effective since you don't have to apply it as often as you would do with other lipsticks. 

Other available colors. (Will probably buy all of them ^_^)

After a whole day of Wedding Coordination (That's me in the middle. Check out my lips guys!)

After eating lunch. The fuchsia stain is still there. No need to re-touch.

Whole night of drinking! Still pretty in pink! ^_^